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What is true kindness?

Kindness, whether in words or things, also has strength.

Because my real name includes the character for “kindness” (優), I’ve been thinking about this for a long time.

When you’re constantly subjected to cruelty or hurtful words, it’s hard to be kind to others. Your heart gets wounded, and you become numb, unable to think clearly.

In such times, it’s okay to run away. It’s okay to escape. If staying there means breaking yourself, it’s fine to leave that place behind. Always protect yourself and take care of yourself.

When someone asks you to take on something hurtful or mean, refuse. Don’t accept it.

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These are precious words I received when I was struggling. I’ve kept them close to my heart ever since.

I want to contact the person who gave me these words when I feel calm again. But for now, I’m choosing not to, because I don’t want to rely on them out of weakness.

I always remember the words from someone who supported me when I needed it the most. I hope one day I can speak to them again when I’m in a happy place.

Thank you so much for that time. I know they won’t see this, but I’m writing it down anyway.

Kindness can make life difficult. Staying true to it can make life hard.

But I’m grateful to those who encouraged me to remain kind. I’ve been fortunate to meet such wonderful people.

Thank you 😊

Right now, I’m being brave and kind to myself.